"I love you, but you're not the right person for me. Sorry" - said Gabriel, suddenly, to his girlfriend seven years older, , while they were sharing and finishing a chocolate ice cream.
He was trying to follow his instincts, thinking that the difference was too much for him. Maybe not now, he was 21, she 28, but in the future. Probably he had listened too much about other opinions. Family issues, who knows? If he is happy today? Don't know. She is. Today, all she can think about is "how the hell he could have done this to me, to us? We are so crazy in love..." Except he could.
Not everyone is ready for love, that is the truth. You have to want this gift, be prepared. Its not easy to receive and give love when you're not in your best shape for this. It Happens with almost everybody. The older you get, the worse the situation.
Love is not logical. How many times have you felt attracted to someone completely unremarkable? Yeah... That woman with short hair, wearing an old pair of snickers, who has a scooter and no fear of changing her tires. That bald guy who doesnt have his own apartment, no job and speaks with his mouth full. Ah, and he loves onions.
You dump someone because it seems to be too much. You give up on love because you're not sure. You look for flaws. You look for the future. Baby, its impossible to do that. Has a lot of fog on it. You have to trust what you feel.
We spend our whole life looking for someone perfetc. But we forget that a perfect conection can come from an imperfect woman, an imperfect man.
What is perfection, then? Its to be happy, even if you think that one is not the one. Maybe she is. Maybe he wants to be.
And we keep walking down that lonely street. Keep thinking and waiting.
Time is so slow for those who are in love. For those who wait a decision.
And so quick for the man who is afraid, the woman who doesnt know what to do yet.
So many time for people who whine
Its a minute for people who want to party
But for those who love, its always forever.
And just like this... One dies. We has born.
Fight for love is nice. Better yet is to have it.
So, if you're not sure, hold the line.
Because love sometimes isn't always on time.
"Não estamos bem, mas vamos ficar"
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